Author: pallavi

  • When Beauty Turns to Grief: The Pahalgam Attack and a Daughter’s Reckoning

    Two days before bullets shattered the peace in Pahalgam, my parents were there—laughing, sipping kahwa, calling it “mini Switzerland.” Today, they’re watching those same meadows on the news, scarred by tragedy. As a daughter, a mother, a fellow human—I’ve written about what this attack means to me, and to so many.

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  • Why Won’t My Toddler Eat? 5 Tricks That Worked (and 3 That Absolutely Didn’t)

    Why Won’t My Toddler Eat? 5 Tricks That Worked (and 3 That Absolutely Didn’t)

    You cook a five-course toddler thali. They eat the air. Welcome to the culinary heartbreak of toddlerhood. From rice flung across the room to dramatic gagging at the sight of dal, feeding a toddler can feel like competing on a reality show where the prize is… peace. Here’s what worked for us, what didn’t, and…

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  • Poila Boishakh & the Summer of Good Juju

    Poila Boishakh & the Summer of Good Juju

    Seasons may not change much in Chennai, but on Poila Boishakh, my heart still dances to Rabindra Sangeet, my kids wear new clothes, and the scent of dhokar dalna fills the air—because some traditions travel with you, stitched gently into memory. Here’s how this probashi Bangali mom keeps the Poila Boishakh magic alive—one nostalgic bite…

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  • Nabobarsho, Puthandu & Chaitra Shenanigans: A Triple-Decker Desi New Year Special

    Nabobarsho, Puthandu & Chaitra Shenanigans: A Triple-Decker Desi New Year Special

    April in our house is like a festival buffet—Puthandu on April 14, Nabobarsho on April 15, and Chaitra New Year already checked off (thanks, UP!). While my toddler mistakes every celebration for a birthday party, I juggle kolams, mishti doi, and Tagore playlists like a cultural ninja. It’s chaos, it’s colorful, and it’s desi motherhood…

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  • My 8.5-Month-Old Only Wants Breast Milk and Finger Foods—And That’s Okay!

    My 8.5-Month-Old Only Wants Breast Milk and Finger Foods—And That’s Okay!

    At 8.5 months, my baby has made it crystal clear—no purees, no formula, just boob and chewable food, please! While I panicked over rejected khichdi and untouched spoons, he’s been busy trying to crawl, walk, talk, and climb the cat. Turns out, he’s hitting milestones like a champ—and breast milk is still doing the heavy…

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  • Recovering from a C-section? Here’s What I Wish Someone Told Me…

    Recovering from a C-section? Here’s What I Wish Someone Told Me…

    No one talks about the spinal, the gas pain, or how peeing becomes a milestone. Recovering from a C-section in an Indian hospital is equal parts hilarious, painful, and humbling. Here’s what I really wish someone told me before the anesthesia wore off.

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  • Baby Massage 101: The What, Why, When & How of This Age-Old Ritual (+ My Personal Tips!)

    Baby Massage 101: The What, Why, When & How of This Age-Old Ritual (+ My Personal Tips!)

    Wondering whether to massage your baby or skip it like that one doctor on Instagram suggested? Here’s your ultimate guide to the what, why, when, where, and how of baby massage – straight from a mom who’s been there, done that (and still gets oil under her nails). With personal stories, expert-backed insights, and step-by-step…

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  • The Ultimate Guide to Baby Massage Oils in India 

    The Ultimate Guide to Baby Massage Oils in India 

    Choosing the right baby massage oil can be overwhelming, but don’t worry—I’ve done the testing for you! From my all-time favorite Blue Nectar Baby Oil for winters to the classic Dabur Lal Tail (which my mom swore by), and the everyday go-to Figaro Baby Oil, this post breaks down the best baby oils in India.…

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  • Indian Baby-Led Weaning: A Month-by-Month Guide

    Indian Baby-Led Weaning: A Month-by-Month Guide

    Starting your baby on solids? Wondering what to feed them month by month? This Indian Baby Weaning Foods Guide has you covered! From traditional favorites like dal khichdi and ragi porridge to modern options like avocado puree and oats, this post is packed with age-appropriate food ideas, tips, and common mistakes to avoid. Perfect for…

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  • Hindu New Year: A Celebration of Renewal and Devotion

    Hindu New Year: A Celebration of Renewal and Devotion

    🌸 Welcoming the Hindu New Year & Chaitra Navaratri! 🏵️ As we step into a new year in the Hindu calendar, it’s time for fresh beginnings, devotion, and celebrations! Chaitra Navaratri marks nine days of worship dedicated to Goddess Durga, leading up to Ram Navami. In our family, we observe these days with daily pujas,…

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